Pinyin Lyrics, English Lyrics (Translation), Info/About, Background Story, Covers & Versions, Chords, Video, and Streaming Links
Info/About
Song Name | Actually其实(Qi Shi) |
Artist | Joker Xue薛之谦 |
Lyricist | Joker Xue |
Composer | Joker Xue |
Released | 2013 |
Genre | Pop/Soundtrack/Lyrical/Sentimental |
Language | Mandarin |
Background Story
This song was released on November 11, 2013, it’s an insert song of the TV Series “Mother Like Flowers妈妈像花儿一样” and has become one of the most popular tracks by Joker Xue薛之谦, since release, it has been covered by many other artists.

Lyrics in Pinyin/Mandarin/English
bù xū yào jiè kǒu
不需要借口
No excuse is needed
ài dàn le jiù fàng shǒu
爱淡了就放手
Let go when love fades
wǒ bù xiǎng tīng
我不想听
I don’t want to listen
nǐ yě méi shuō
你也没说
And you didn’t say anything either
píng jìng de jiāo cuò
平静的交错
We pass by each other calmly
suí biàn zhǎo gè lǐ yóu
随便找个理由
Just find any reason
jué dìng le jiù bié huí tóu
决定了就别回头
Don’t look back once you’ve decided
bù ài nǐ de rén
不爱你的人
Someone who doesn’t love you
shuō shén me dōu méi yòng
说什么都没用
Whatever you say is useless
fēn kāi shí nán guò bù néng shuō
分开时难过不能说
Can’t say I’m sad when we part
shuí méi shuí bù néng hǎo hǎo guò
谁没谁不能好好过
No one can’t live well without someone else
nà tiān wǒ men zǒu le hěn jiǔ méi yǒu zhēng chǎo guò
那天我们走了很久没有争吵过
That day we walked for a long time without arguing
fēn kāi shí nán guò bù yào shuō
分开时难过不要说
Don’t say I’m sad when we part
rú guǒ bèi nǐ yī xiào ér guò
如果被你一笑而过
If you just laugh it off
hái bù rú ràng nǐ xuǎn zé xiǎng yào de shēng huó
还不如让你选择想要的生活
It’s better to let you choose the life you want
fēn kāi hòu wǒ huì xiào zhe shuō
分开后我会笑着说
After parting, I will smile and say
dāng péng yǒu wèn nǐ guān yú wǒ
当朋友问你关于我
When friends ask you about me
wǒ dōu huì qīng miáo dàn xiě fǎng fú méi ài guò
我都会轻描淡写仿佛没爱过
I will downplay it as if I never loved you
qí shí wǒ gēn běn méi rén shuō
其实我根本没人说
In fact, I have no one to talk to
qí shí wǒ méi nǐ bù néng huó
其实我没你不能活
In fact, I can’t live without you
qí shí wǒ gěi nǐ de ài bǐ nǐ xiǎng de duō
其实我给你的爱比你想的多
In fact, the love I gave you is more than you thought
fēn kāi shí nán guò bù néng shuō
分开时难过不能说
Can’t say I’m sad when we part
shuí méi shuí bù néng hǎo hǎo guò
谁没谁不能好好过
No one can’t live well without someone else
nà tiān wǒ men zǒu le hěn jiǔ méi yǒu zhēng chǎo guò
那天我们走了很久没有争吵过
That day we walked for a long time without arguing
fēn kāi shí nán guò bù yào shuō
分开时难过不要说
Don’t say I’m sad when we part
rú guǒ bèi nǐ yī xiào ér guò
如果被你一笑而过
If you just laugh it off
hái bù rú ràng nǐ xuǎn zé xiǎng yào de shēng huó
还不如让你选择想要的生活
It’s better to let you choose the life you want
fēn kāi hòu wǒ huì xiào zhe shuō
分开后我会笑着说
After parting, I will smile and say
dāng péng yǒu wèn nǐ guān yú wǒ
当朋友问你关于我
When friends ask you about me
wǒ dōu huì qīng miáo dàn xiě fǎng fú méi ài guò
我都会轻描淡写仿佛没爱过
I will downplay it as if I never loved you
qí shí wǒ gēn běn méi rén shuō
其实我根本没人说
In fact, I have no one to talk to
qí shí wǒ méi nǐ bù néng huó
其实我没你不能活
In fact, I can’t live without you
qí shí wǒ gěi nǐ de ài bǐ nǐ xiǎng de duō
其实我给你的爱比你想的多
In fact, the love I gave you is more than you thought
qí shí wǒ ài nǐ bǐ nǐ xiǎng de duō de duō
其实我爱你比你想的多得多
In fact, I love you much more than you thought
Covers & Versions
MV Version
Live Performance in 2023
Live Performance in 2023
Lyric Video
Popular Female Cover by Amy Chanrich陈壹千
DJ Version
Cover by Cai Yilun蔡亦伦
Collection of fan covers on Tik Tok
Cover by Amy Chanrich陈壹千
Chords
Streaming Links
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